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Family Gang Fight
Tuesday, November 02, 2004

Had a very bad day today, and the highlight of the day should be my family gang fight. Oh... let me state clearly that the fight is not within my family (siblings or parents), it is between my uncles and me.

It was just a very small matter over the parking lot. However it is the trigger to the fight due to a lot of past issues that was not settled.

My uncle parked his van very near to the "border line" and it is block me from entering to my parking lot. I told him twice last week in a good manner, I said "PLEASE"... which in fact I never talked to him for 20 years....

At last when I told him again in the evening when I reach home. He started shouting and scolding me like a mad man. My brother heard the shouting and he quickly came out from the house to see what's the problem. I was still able to control myself until he started to accuse me for shouting at him and purposely wanna to create problem.

I lost my temper and I started to fight back. He wanted to raise his fist but I did warn him, if he dare to hit me, I will see him in police station. The fight was quite bad and I called my dad to come to my house to claim justice.

All of my other 3 uncles and aunts came (we are neighbor) and my uncles was still shouting like a mad person.

While waiting for my dad to come, I just lock my house door and took my bath...

Well.. of course it wasn't a good ending where my uncle have to repark his van, and I was famous of being "not respectful".

I have to admit that I wasn't respectful to my mad uncle when I scolded him back for being unreasonable. But the family's traditional hierarchy that I shouldn't voice out because he is my uncle, and I should ask my dad to talk him, is unacceptable to me.

The worst thing of the fight is that my uncles said I "kurang ajar", which means my parents never taught me properly. That was something made me very mad.... because I will not allow anyone to scold my parents or look down on them.

I can't sleep at night because of the anger and also trying to overcome the condemnation within me .....

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